Archetype · OW
Owner BDSM archetype meaning
You tame, train and cherish.
In a few words
An owner is the dominant counterpart in pet play: they care for, train, feed, reward and discipline a partner in an animal role. Ownership combines authority and affection.
What may attract this archetype
- ▸Training tricks and behaviours
- ▸Collars, leashes, bowls
- ▸Rewarding and petting
- ▸Caring for a pet's wellbeing
Safety points
- !Protect knees and wrists during crawling
- !Agree on a way to speak out of role
- !Pet play is between consenting adults only
Often paired with
Pet →
Kitten, puppy, pony — you slip into an animal's skin. Petted, trained, owned.
Frequently asked questions
What is an owner in pet play?
An owner is the partner who takes care of, trains and cherishes a pet in consensual pet play.
Is pet play sexual?
It can be, or not. For many, it's about care, play and a simple headspace.
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